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The Writings of Tamarack Song
Growing Up Native:  A Vision of the Children and Parents We Could Be

This excerpt from Tamarack's upcoming book Blossoming the Child: Native-inspired Ways of Unparenting and Encouraging Childwisdom explores the native concepts of a "blossoming child" and an "unparenting parent." The text explores Native views on child life, the naming of children, learning through play and experience about sex, gender roles, camp life, and relationships with people and the Earth. The main theme is that from birth, people are all genetically programmed to blossom into happily fulfilled children, and then grow out of childhood into fully successful and fulfilled adulthood. Growing up Native is a simulated dialogue between anthropologist Marjorie Shostak (who studied the !Kung San of South Africa) and educator Evelyn Wolfson (whose research covered North American Natives), which was created by Tamarack Song from their writings.


Excerpt...

!Kung children have no schools. There is no doubt in the parents' minds that as children grow up they will learn to act with sense, with or without deliberate training, simply as a result of maturation, social pressure, and the desire to conform to group values.

            Indian children don't have to go to school.  Yet they grow up to be responsible, contributing members of their communities. Their learning does not have to take place in school.  [They] wake up every morning in a classroom--their home.  They go outdoors to another classroom--the world around them. Learning and playing are the same thing. Children move freely around their villages, exploring and experimenting on their own. They are given guidance and help only when needed.
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Introduction

Books

Whispers of the Ancients

Journey to the Ancestral Self

Sacred Speech - Truthspeaking

Booklets

Fat Moons, Hunger Moons

Banishment: A Path from Self to Circle

Born to Wander

Growing Up Native

Native Lifeway: The Circle Way*

Finding a Guide and the Role of the Seeker*

The Vision Quest: A Script for Life*

Your Sacred Name: The Native Within*

Your Animal Guide: Your Life Companion*

The Sweat Lodge: A Return to the Womb*

Medicine Plant, Medicine Animal: Ancestral Healer*

Matedness: Two Hearts, One Fire*

Death: The Song of Passing*

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